Recently I discovered that my boyfriend has been having a wild old time online with a man he met in a chat room. When I confronted him about it, he said the relationship has been confined to the Internet, so there isn’t any cause for jealousy. But I’m worried that the online relationship may turn into a physical one. What should I do?
First thing is to ask yourself regarding how you feel about the online relationship. If you have feelings against it then you should bring it up with your boyfriend. However, don’t take the stand of saying that it is wrong but favorably from the point of view showing how you feel about it. If you do believe, however, that the online relationship is not a problem, then you should not think more of incident. Allowing yourself to keep thinking about it could probably just make you see things that are really not there. It is much recommended that you on the now.
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i posted a similar question a few years back. is it cheating when its done over the internet? here were some of the interesting replies from readers:
- if you dont feel guilty, its not cheating (and if you were the person cheated on, it becomes a question of --are you okey with it)
- cheating on the internet is like imagining your having sex with someone else. except that someone happens to be participatory.
- heres my favorite -- if there were no rules violated, then its not cheating.
bonne chance.
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